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Anal Sex: Positions Guide for Intense sex
Most couples will never even attempt the BEST anal positions that you will discover! She will be shaking with PURE PLEASURE as you immediately put what we teach into practice.
A brief warning before you start, though: The postures in this tutorial could make your wife completely dependent on you. She will be drenched in sweat and juice if you follow our advice, and she might even become OBSESSED with you.
Therefore, don't be shocked if she begins pleading with you for more.
We've warned you!
Are you ready? Then let's get started!
Foreplay for anal sex
As you can appreciate, foreplay for anal sex needs to be slower and more measured than your usual repertoire! Yes, you can still eat your woman out, but you need to add a few extra steps along the way.
Once you’ve chosen your favorite anal sex toys and done a little experimenting, you’ll need some solid foreplay positions to get your lover excited about butt sex.
Here are two of the HOTTEST foreplay positions for anal sex!
1. The Water Fountain
If you’ve never tried bathroom sex, prepare to be amazed! The Water Fountain is perfect for giving your woman mind-blowing oral sex and it’s great for introducing anilingus (ass licking), anal douche play, and anal sex toys, too!
We also have an article on how to spice up oral sex here.
Technique:
She sits on the bathroom counter or basin and you kneel on the floor between her legs. She supports her upper body with her hands and leans back while you gently spread her legs and start eating her out. She can drape her legs on your upper back or put her feet on your shoulders. This angles her hips and gives you easy access to her anus for anilingus and anal play.
Advantages
The position offers amazing clitoral stimulation that will have her WRITHING in ecstasy!
Kneeling on a hard bathroom floor can be painful. Trying using a small bathroom mat or towel to keep you in the game for longer.
2. The Forbidden Fruit
If bathroom sex isn’t on the cards, the hands-down BEST oral sex position for experimenting with anilingus and butt sex toys is the Forbidden Fruit.
Here’s what to do:
Technique
She kneels on a bed with her legs open, her body straight, and her head down. By placing her weight on her elbows, her vulva and anus go into the IDEAL position for her to receive both cunnilingus and anilingus!
You simply kneel behind her and start eating her out. From this position, stimulating her clitoris and anus with your lips and tongue is a BREEZE! You can use your lubricated fingers, lips and tongue to gently tease, stroke, and penetrate her vagina and anus until she is MOANING with pleasure!
Advantages:
This is one of the easiest-access oral sex positions for anal play!
If you’re anywhere except a bed, this position can be rough on your knees! If you’re on the floor, it’s best to kneel on a cushion or some clothing.
Tip 1. Stimulate her erogenous zones
Anal play is great. But when you stimulate her erogenous zones at the same time, it becomes nothing short of TRANSCENDING!
The HOTTEST erogenous zones for most women are:
The nape and back of her neck
Tip 2. Get buzzy!
If you want to help your woman achieve a SQUIRTING orgasm, try using a vibrating butt plug or wand while you eat her out! You’ll have to play around with what works for her: some women LOVE having their butt cheeks caressed while others prefer licking and some like light or even full penetration. Play around and see what works for your partner!
Tip 3. Triple the pleasure
If you want to GUARANTEE that your woman orgasms so hard that she SQUIRTS, you need to go for the triple-whammy of clitoral stimulation, G Spot stimulation, and anal stimulation at the SAME TIME.
How?
While in the Water Fountain or the Forbidden Fruit position, trying giving your woman deep cunnilingus with plenty of direct clitoral stimulation. Next, start toying her anus with a butt plug or anal wand until she starts moaning a little. Lastly, while licking her clit, try sliding your ring and index fingers into her vagina use a ‘come-hither’ motion to stimulate her G Spot.
When done correctly, this combination is enough to send your women over the edge and give her a squirting orgasm like she’s NEVER experienced before!
5. Beginner anal sex positions
So you’re ready to try anal sex? Although most people think of doggie style when they think of anal sex, we really don’t recommend this position for beginners. Doggie style puts the woman in a position where they have no control of the depth and pace of penetration, a huge no-no for anal amateurs. That’s why we suggest experimenting with other positions first.
For anal novices, here are the best beginner positions to try:
The Spoon
The Spoon
Technique:
To do the Spoon, she lies down comfortably on her side and bends her upper leg at the knee. You lie down behind her and place your upper leg alongside the back of hers.
The Spoon is a great position for vaginal sex; many couples choose to have vaginal sex first, before moving onto anal sex. When you feel ready to take things further, fully lubricate your penis and start to gently penetrate her anus from behind. You can reach around to gently stimulate her clitoris. A gentle rocking motion will help keep the penetration light while your woman adjusts and relaxes to the rhythm of your thrusts.
Advantages
This is an incredibly soft, gentle and relaxing position that will make anal sex as pleasurable as possible.
Disadvantages
This position limits your ability to thrust too deeply. However, the tightness of the anus means you’ll easily climax in this position no matter what!
Here’s how it’s done:
Technique:
Begin by placing a pillow or sex cushion under her buttocks while she lies on the bed. She extends her arms along her body and you kneel between her legs. Gently raise one of her legs and hold her thigh or ankle. Reach down and use your well-lubricated penis to gentle penetrates her anus with your shaft.
Advantages
This missionary variation is simple to do and extremely comfortable for couples who are experimenting with anal sex for the first time.
The range of thrusting motion is limited in this position as you are quite low down, almost sitting on your heels.
The Rider
You’re familiar with the Cowgirl position, but did you know that it’s also a great beginner anal sex position, too? First-time anal adventures need a position that offers plenty of control over the depth and pace of penetration. That’s why the Cowgirl variation known as the Rider is one of the best beginner positions to try!
Technique:
As if doing the Cowgirl, you lie on the bed with your head supported by a pillow. She stands over you with her feet either side of your abdomen. She squats down and gently lowers herself onto your erect shaft, using her hands on your chest for support.
Advantages
This girl-on-top position is great for maintaining eye contact during sex.
Most women find this position less relaxing than the Spoon or the Rider. This makes it less likely that your woman is going to orgasm during sex. Try placing your hands under her butt to support her weight and make the position more comfortable.
The Ice Cream
Rear-entry anal sex is quite tricky for anal amateurs as you lose eye contact. This makes it difficult to read each other’s reactions and responses to pleasure or discomfort. The best position to begin experiment with rear-entry action is the Ice Cream.
Technique:
You kneel down on the bed with your butt on your heels. She stands with her feet outside your knees while facing away. She slowly lowers herself down and onto your erect shaft as you support and guide her hips. As your penis penetrates her anus, she can place her hands on your thighs to support her weight. Once she feels comfortable with the sensation of having you inside her, she can rock back and forth or up and down until one or both of you climax.
Advantages
This rear-entry anal sex position gives her good control over the depth and pace of penetration. She can use her hands to avoid sinking too deeply onto your penis.
This kneeling position can be uncomfortable for some guys, but with the excitement of anal sex, any discomfort can easily be ignored!
6. Intermediate anal sex positions
For couples with some anal sex experience, here are the best intermediate positions to try:
The Backwards Cowgirl
As a slightly more demanding variation of the standard Cowgirl position, the Backwards Cowgirl is a FANTASTIC intermediate anal sex position to try!
Technique:
Sit on the bed with your legs slightly apart and your back straight. Your woman kneels with her knees either side of your thighs and then shimmies backward. She lowers herself down onto your erect, lubricated shaft, letting you penetrate her anally. By supporting her weight on your knees, she can stretch out forward and rock up and down or backward and forwards.
Advantages
The Backwards Cowgirl is a superb rear-entry position that gives her plenty of control. She can turn her head half-back to see you and maintain great eye contact throughout.
This position doesn’t offer much in the way of thrusting opportunities you. The depth and pace are firmly within her control throughout. You’ll still love it, though!
She lies face down on the bed with a small bolster pillow (or sex cushion) under her hips. You stand over her and assume the ‘lunge’ position with one foot near her hips and one near her feet. You crouch down and support your upper body weight on your clenched fists. You gently enter her anally with your shaft and start slowly moving in and out.
Advantages
The Sleeping Beauty is a good position to experiment with rear-entry as the ‘lunge’ position prevents you from thrusting too hard or too deeply.
While this position offers easy anal access, it doesn’t give such a wide range of motion as other doggie-style positions.
The Basset Hound
Technique:
The Basset Hound is the classic doggie style position with a twist. She kneels on the bed with her hips in the air and supports her upper body on her hands with her head up. You kneel behind your woman with your knees aside hers. Place your hands on her buttocks and hips for support and gently enter her with your lubricated shaft.
Advantages
This position gives you an UNBELIEVABLY erotic view of her ass and back!
Unless she reaches around to put her hands on your hips, this position doesn’t give her much control over the pace of the thrusting. It’s important to keep communicating when doing the Basset Hound so that you don’t thrust painfully deep.
The Bulldog
The Bulldog is a variation of the standard doggie position where the guy stands on the balls of his feet and crouches down over his woman. She kneels on all fours and you straddle your woman’s hips. Crouch down and put your weight on one of your clenched fists. Use your other hand to guide your lubricated penis into her ass. As you begin to move in and out, place your other hand down for extra support.
Advantages
If you’ve tried doggie style and felt frustrated with thrusting in a kneeling position, you’ll LOVE the Bulldog! This crouching position is FAR more comfortable than doggie style and most guys find it MUCH easier to achieve orgasm.
The Bulldog puts the depth and pace of the thrusts firmly in the man’s court. Communication is essential to prevent pain and/or injury during this position.
7. Advanced anal sex positions
What’s hotter than anal sex? How about turning up the kink and taking things OUT of the bedroom? These advanced positions are some of the steamiest, kinkiest and trickiest positions to master! If the other positions in our guide seem too VANILLA for your tastes, THIS is the section for you!
The best advanced anal sex positions are:
The Eiffel Tower
Technique:
Start by standing behind your woman with your groin near her butt. As she bends forward, position your legs to either side of her, to compensate for any height differences. She bends down and touches the floor with her hands. If this is too much of a stretch, she can use a nearby chair. You guide your shaft into her anus and place your hands on her hips as you thrust into her.
Advantages
This position is great for a variety of venues including the bedroom, bathroom, living room and more!
Disadvantages
If there is a significant height difference between you and your partner, finding the right height can be difficult. If you’re much taller, trying spreading your legs out to get into a lower position.
Have your woman lie back on a bed and bring her knees up towards her shoulders. Help her wrap her arms around the inside of her legs and hold onto her ankles or feet. You kneel down with your knees to either side of her butt. Support your weight by placing your hands on her thighs. As you enter her anus with your shaft and start having anal sex, use your hands for guidance and support.
Advantages
This position is AWESOME for anal veterans as it offers full entry while leaving both of your hands-free to explore her clitoris and erogenous zones!
Not everyone is flexible enough to try this position. However, by placing a pillow under your woman’s butt, you can lift her up into a more comfortable position.
Is regular doggie too plain for your tastes? What better way to spice things up than with a kinky, head-in-the-pillow position? The Downward Dog is a dirty, rough doggie style variation that will have your woman GAGGING for more!
You start from a regular doggie style position with her on all fours. Kneel behind her with your legs inside hers and spread her knees apart. Pull one of her hands behind her back and place your other hand on the nape of her neck. As you penetrate her anally, you can control the intensity of your thrusts by supporting her body with your hands.
Advantages
This rough anal sex position is PERFECT for women who love to feel dominated! The Downward Dog puts your woman completely at your mercy.
You are unable to provide your girlfriend with any clitoral stimulation when both of your hands are otherwise occupied. You can enjoy it more as a "climax move" when you're prepared to arrive.
Conclusion and Future Plans?
Hopefully, our article has addressed all of your queries regarding the ideal anal sex positions. Our guide has covered everything, from getting started to using the greatest anal sex gadgets and trying out the best anal sex positions!
You and your woman can start enjoying fantastic anal sex if you use the appropriate methods, strategies, and advice!
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